Большой русско-английский фразеологический словарь

ХОЧЕТСЯ И КОЛЕТСЯ

(И) ХОЧЕТСЯ И КОЛЕТСЯcoll,humor
[VP;impers; these forms only; fixedWO]
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s.o.is torn between the desire to dosth.and the fear of doing it because of the risk, danger, or loss that might be involved:
-I want <he wantsetc> to, but I'm <he'setc> scared <wavering, hanging back>;
-I (youetc) want to, but...;
-the cat loves fish but hates water;
-honey is sweet, but the bee stings.