Большой русско-английский фразеологический словарь
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БЕЗ МЕНЯ МЕНЯ ЖЕНИЛИusu.humor(saying)sth.concerning me was decided (or done in my name) without my knowing about it or consenting to it: - before I knew what was happening you (they) up and volunteered meyou (they) made me aNPwithout my knowledgeyou (they) got me into it without my knowledge.
Алик Неяркий вскочил, едва покосившись на нас смущённым глазом - что, мол, поделаешь, профессором заделали, без меня меня женили (Аксёнов 6). АНk Neyarky jumped up, with an embarrassed sideways glance in our direction, implying that it wasn't his fault they had made him a professor without his knowledge (6a).